Is There Any Way to Avoid an Episiotomy?

by Angela

I'm 7 months pregnant. I'd like to know if there anything I can do to reduce the chance for an episiotomy.

At what point during labour is an episiotomy done? Does every one require an episiotomy? Does it hurt even if local anesthesia is used?

Thank you,
Angela

Answer:

Hi Angela,

You've asked some really good questions. I'll start with your last couple.

First, no, not every woman needs an episiotomy. In fact, most women don't need an episiotomy. The female body is made to give birth - and that means the pelvic floor and those tissues are meant to stretch.

Episiotomies have been performed because doctors believed that they were better than tears, which some women do have. This hasn't really held up to research - in fact, an episiotomy can cause even more extensive damage because a woman will still tear past the episiotomy.

If you've ever tried to tear a piece of fabric in half, it can be challenging. But if you put a little snip in the fabric first, it becomes very easy. It's similar with the tissues in the pelvic floor. An episiotomy can cause more extensive damage.

An episiotomy is done during the pushing stage - generally just as the baby is crowning. They can give an anesthetic before doing the episiotomy but often it's not needed. When the baby's head is crowning and the skin is stretched very tightly it'll be numb and an episiotomy won't be felt.

It does hurt healing up, though. Tears often hurt healing, too.

You can reduce your chances of needing episiotomy or tearing.

Be careful with your nutrition during pregnancy. Also get out and walk or do some other gentle exercise often. Eating well will help keep your tissues healthy and soft. Getting up and getting moving will improve circulation all through your body, including down in your pelvic tissues.

During your baby's birthing it's best to let the second stage (pushing stage) go naturally. Don't push forcefully while someone counts and orders you to push. Push your baby out as your body gives you cues to do so - when you feel the urge to push. Stop and take a break when your body isn't telling you to push.

If your baby's head slips back a little, that's ok - this slight backwards and then forwards is ok and it gives your tissues time to stretch around your baby's head.

My Galen was born very, very, very fast - two pushing contractions and he was out. I had no tearing, no bruising - no problems at all.

I feel confident this is because of my good nutrition in pregnancy - but even more than that it's because my husband and I did the Internal Work from the Pink Kit. The Pink Kit is a childbirth class you do in your house. It has step-by-step directions for doing the Internal Work, which is sort of like perineal massage - just more.

It's basically massaging the tissues and working the muscles of the perineum to get ready for the birth. It takes just around 10 minutes daily and you start it in about the last 10 weeks of pregnancy. I feel like it made an amazing difference for me, and even though Galen was born really fast, I had an excellent birth experience and no tearing.

My midwife told me "Kristen, you could have 12 babies" ;)

So no, episiotomy is not required, and yes, you can do things to prepare yourself for birth without one.

One last thing - talk to your midwife or doctor and find out if they routinely do episiotomies on women. Some do, and you'll need to tell them you really don't want one.

The Pink Kit

Galen's Birth

Ina May's Guide to Childbirth - Ina May has an entire chapter devoted to preventing episiotomy (and the entire book is excellent, a "must read")

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Is There Any Way to Avoid an Episiotomy?

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Dec 11, 2009
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Wow...
by: Katherine

Thanks so much, it's really good to hear this!

Dec 12, 2009
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A Trick or Two
by: sarah

There are books and papers that do have info on best ways to stretch down there. I suggest having your partner massage the area often with a water based lube or olive oil (can be done on your own too).

Stretching the area can boost your chances of not tearing. I tore my first birth, I had meds with him and was pushing on demand. It took a long long time for my soreness to go away, it was worse than the actual process of birth i think.

This second time though I did without meds, and let my body tell me what to do. No tearing, no bruising. I was not sore or anything. So she is def right about the listening to your body.

Dec 16, 2009
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Some insight
by: Anonymous

Hi there,

I too was afraid of this. I had to push for 3 long hours and I tore a bit, naturally. They did not perform an episiotomy. The doctor was trying to stretch it out as I pushed with her fingers which can help.

They did have to sew me up, but I didn't feel a thing. I also would like to mention that I did not have any drugs, so it is true that if you go natural, your body does provide its own anesthetic down there.

My healing was painless as well. I have had friends who said it was awful, but they all had epidurals so maybe they pushed harder than they would and tore more since they couldn't feel anything down there.

So try not to worry. If you plan for your birth and get ready for it, it will all work out. Tearing and healing don't have to hurt, you will be focused and in the zone at that point and will be astonished at how much strength you will have.

Hope this helps..


Dec 18, 2009
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Consider a Water Birth?
by: Anonymous

You should make it clear to your doctor/midwife your feelings about an episiotomy. I've had friends that got one without their knowledge. Doc just did it in the midst of things.

We had a water birth, and some I've talked to suggest the soaking in warm water can prevent tears. We also had the midwife massage as the baby was coming, to help stretch things out.

Oct 17, 2010
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Stiches after episiotomy
by: Anonymous

My wife didnt felt any pain during episiotomy.
But after birth stiching was very very painful and horrible. I think possible causes was improper anesthesia and lady doctor was in hurry to go somewere else or lady doctor was afraid of some side effect of local anesthesia.
However we are not aware what was exact cause. some one may add comment.

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